I remember our first week of homeschooling – well, actually I only remember the Friday. In those days we homeschooled for 4 days, and on Friday we went to the pool in the morning, and then I did my lesson prep for the following week in the afternoon. Sometimes we went to the library before we came home. It was a full day for us – I had three kids aged 4 and under.
I remember sitting at the pool though and my muscles just relaxing. My day was wonderful! I loved our new life! It was the comparison between before homeschooling and after homeschooling that sticks with me. I sat there happy in knowing that my house was in order, dinner was prepared. Compared to the days when Josh was at Kindy, we’d leave the house at 7.15, drop him off at Kindy, do our chores around town till it was time to pick him up again (he only did 3.5hours) and then we’d go to the pool, possibly the library before I took my very tired children home. When we arrived home I had breakfast dishes and laundry greet me, let alone dinner! How nice to be able to leave home at a later time, with those things done, and sit at the pool relaxing with my children. This was my first ‘feel good’ about homeschooling!
Every so often though there are big days when we leave the house in the morning and don’t get back home till late afternoon. These are tiring days, and days I prefer not to have too often. But over the years I have noticed a few things that make this type of day easier to manage:
The night before
- Have clothes ready
- Have bags for everyone ready (my kids have always had backpacks, where they take their own hat, waterbottle and books to read while we are out)
- Have food/snacks ready to grab (or prepare first thing in the morning – like cutting up fresh fruit.
On the day itself, make time to have the following done (and if there is no time, get these things done the night before)
- Have the house tidy – things put away, dishes done, floor swept
- Have dinner prepared (now that my kids are older we can plan on a super-simple meal to prepare when we get home but when they were younger, it needed to be done, ready to go)
- Have no expectations on the evening
When we get home after such a day out it is important to
- Unpack everything first up (before we do anything else), put things back in their right place
- Get everyone showered / bathed
- Have everyone doing something quiet until dinner is ready (I love to see my family congregate in the lounge room reading, waiting for dinner).
What do you do to help these days go smoothly?
Thank you for sharing your heart and tips here about home school. I have just started home school for my eldest son who is in prep this year.
Hi Nicole – thanks for dropping by. May you have a wonderful year with your son. Have you had a look at my website – the information there is a lot more organised than here at my blog.
This is a good reminder for me – even though I’m not running a household yet! – to plan ahead and work towards getting my personal responsibilities done, on those times that I am leaving the house early.
Yes, Jess, these principles work whether your responsibilities are for just one, or for a family.
Unpacking and bathing the kids is always number one on our list when we return. Some good points there Belinda, thanks. One thing we try and do (more by default then planning) is for the kids to have some snacks before returning home. This means that no one expects a big meal and usually a piece of fruit and a slice of bed is enough.
Your comments remind me of my family when they were younger. Bath time certainly is a must! It not only gets everyone clean but it also calms everyone down (most times!!) Also food – good point. If we were coming home close to nap time I always fed the kids in town or they ate in the car travelling home which made those first moments at home a lot easier. Thanks for dropping by.